My grandmother always tells us the story about how she found out after 40 years of marriage, that my Grandfather hated custard slices. My grandmother used to buy him a custard slice as a treat every Friday thinking he loved it, meanwhile he was eating it with long teeth and in an attempt to notContinue reading “The power of communication”
Category Archives: infidelity
Why did he cheat?
That question still haunts me today! Don’t get me wrong, I am happy and I am happy I gave him another chance, I am happy I’m in a marriage that has grown from such an ordeal, but…….I still ask why he did it. Let’s back track, when the affair came out the first time, hisContinue reading “Why did he cheat?”
Is revenge really so sweet? why I didn’t bother
So as the idiom goes “Revenge is sweet“…….but is it really? Maybe it depends on the situation, so I can’t even sit here and say that I myself wouldn’t dream of taking taking revenge on someone if for example, it involved my daughter, so again it probably depends on the situation……but, it doesn’t mean it’sContinue reading “Is revenge really so sweet? why I didn’t bother”
The power of music and how it helped me through a difficult time
So if you have been following my blog, you will know that I have experienced a lot of hurt, humiliation and anger because of my husband’s infidelity. I sit here three and a half years later a stronger women, I gave him another chance (again) and I’m happy for it because as we know: EveryContinue reading “The power of music and how it helped me through a difficult time”
Reasons to make your marriage work after infidelity
Finding out that your spouse has betrayed you is one of the most hurtful and humiliating experiences I have ever had. There were days where I wished I rather had a broken bone than a broken heart……in fact, it felt as though my soul, my identity, my privacy and my dignity had been robbed fromContinue reading “Reasons to make your marriage work after infidelity”
Why should the infidelity that has affected your marriage remain a secret if you make it work?
The secrets in your marriage after infidelity or rather the secret marriage after infidelity! I chose to give my husband another chance, I chose to make my marriage work and so it was agreed that nobody would know what had happened, not even a little, not the extent, nothing. Why? Surely I was dying toContinue reading “Why should the infidelity that has affected your marriage remain a secret if you make it work?”
The Twist
Three years into our new found marriage, where everything was just perfect, where I had come to terms with his betrayal and where I had come to accept her existence in this life, I was hit with a devastating and damaging bomb. While driving home from a business meeting, my phone went absolutely nuts withContinue reading “The Twist”
What happened next?
So yes, I hated him, he seemed so satisfied with himself. I broke down, I cried and screamed and couldn’t believe the nightmare I was finding myself in. Once I had calmed down, he continued to explain his actions or rather, should I say, justify his actions……now remember, this was in front of the counselor.Continue reading “What happened next?”
My story…….
So why am I telling you my story……..as I said, I have been through the pain and humiliation of infidelity, I have made the decision to make my marriage work and I know there are so many of you out there that have a similar story or would just like to know that you areContinue reading “My story…….”
The secret life after infidelity 